Summary
I recently went on a trip to Los Angeles with a friend, and after just one day and night together my voice was starting to give out. We were talking constantly: in the car ride on the way there, as we walked around the Getty Museum, as we went out to dinner and drinks, as we went for a run together the next morning.
It was a wonderful experience to take in a new place with a friend and get to know her more by spending so much time together. However, as I’m a pretty classic introvert, by the end I was ready for some alone time.
Travel is often thought of as a social activity. Most people travel with friends, family, or romantic partners to create lasting memories away from their usual routines.
Even if you are traveling alone, social scenarios can abound. From plane rides filled with chatty seatmates to crowded hostels, restaurants, and nightlife, it’s easy to feel surrounded by people.
However, great travel destinations exist for introverts, offering both social opportunities and precious alone time where it’s quiet and less crowded, allowing you to recharge on your own.
Siskiyou in Northern California
Siskiyou, located in northern California, is an ideal destination for introverts seeking solitude in nature. With its 50 rivers, 270 lakes, lava caves, and waterfalls, as well as the serene Mt. Shasta, it offers plenty of opportunities to unwind. The mountain is known as a “spiritual vortex,” reputed for creating a balance and harmony in one’s mind and body. For those who enjoy a quiet group setting, guided meditation tours are available. Moreover, Siskiyou is less frequented than nearby Lake Tahoe or Yosemite, which makes it a tranquil retreat.
New Zealand
The picturesque landscapes of New Zealand, where sheep outnumber people, suit those who cherish solitude. Brad Hines, founder of NerdPlaythings.com, expresses a preference for the south island, renowned for its quiet beauty. “New Zealand’s south island is majestic farmland, national parks, and greenery for miles, all accessible via safe and clean roads,” he notes. “It’s a fantastic opportunity to rent a car and travel from village to village, spending time in remote locales like Toko Mouth, with a population under 100, perfect for peaceful reflection.”
Treehouse Resorts
Increasingly, resorts and hotels have begun to offer treehouse accommodations, which is perfect for introverts. These serene retreats provide beautiful views and a peaceful environment in the trees. Consider the treehouses at Primland in Meadows of Dan, Virginia. Nestled away from the main lodge, these treehouses sit on the mountain’s edge, surrounded by nature, offering stunning views from private decks and exceptional stargazing opportunities.
Brooklyn, New York
Though it may seem paradoxical, Brooklyn, New York, can be a sanctuary for introverts. Travel writer Charish Badzinski emphasizes that being an introvert entails desiring meaningful connections rather than isolation. “The city is bustling with life, yet visitors are often too occupied to engage in trivial conversations,” she notes. “During my time in New York, I felt comfortably alone.” To avoid the crowds, consider staying in Brooklyn and exploring quiet areas like the Brooklyn Botanical Gardens, Prospect Park, and Cobble Hill.
Hundred Mile Wilderness, Maine
The Hundred Mile Wilderness in Maine constitutes the most remote and wild segment of the Appalachian Trail. There is no need to hike the entire trail; simply immersing oneself in its breathtaking scenery can be an enjoyable experience. Consider visiting Medawisla, the Appalachian Mountain Club’s newest wilderness lodge, to partake in a variety of activities including hiking, paddling, fly fishing, canoe camping, snowshoeing, or cross-country skiing while staying in either a private cabin or bunkhouse.
Kazakhstan
Central Asia, particularly Kazakhstan, appeals to travel writers and self-described introverts like Megan Starr. “The incredible landscapes offer a humbling experience, providing ample opportunities to escape reality without encountering dangerous situations,” she shares. “I often hiked alone, finding trails that were well-traveled yet still private. Many mountains are accessible via public transportation, allowing for a mix of nature and solitude.” Additionally, in these regions, cell phones often do not work, offering a perfect opportunity to disconnect and recharge.
Lisbon, Portugal
For introverts, exploring an intriguing city in solitude can be deeply fulfilling. Lisbon provides an ideal environment for aimless wandering, according to frequent traveler Hannah Lorenz, who works with travel agencies Down Under Endeavours and Africa Endeavours. “Lisbon’s narrow, cobbled streets, intricately decorated buildings, and vibrant street art create a perfect backdrop for exploration,” she notes. Public squares near the water invite people-watching. At night, the relaxed and friendly atmosphere of the nightlife spills into the streets, offering an inviting ambiance.
Yoga Retreats
While many fitness and health retreats involve group interactions, yoga retreats stand out due to their emphasis on individual practice and tranquility. Generally, social interactions are meaningful rather than superficial, catering perfectly to introverts. A prime example is the Prana del Mar Retreat & Wellness Center in Baja, Mexico, located between the Pacific Ocean and the Sierra de la Laguna mountains. These week-long retreats include luxurious accommodations, meals, and activities such as watching baby sea turtle releases, surf lessons, or sea kayaking.
Bali, Indonesia
Bali serves as an idyllic retreat for beach enthusiasts and yogis alike. Locations such as Padang boast spacious and tranquil streets, with welcoming locals who respect personal space, allowing for effortless escapes. “Believe it or not, you can find a serene beach spot to watch the sunset, especially at Padang Padang Beach or Suluban Beach during the evening,” notes Chizoba Anyaoha, founder of TravSolo. Furthermore, Ubud offers private yoga and meditation classes for personal rejuvenation.
Japan
While Tokyo, the capital of Japan, is often bustling and overwhelming, the country’s culture maintains a quiet and respectful ambiance, even in lively settings. “Trains remain silent despite being crowded,” shares Anyaoha. “You are unlikely to encounter small talk from strangers; it’s culturally respectful to maintain personal space.” For a true quiet experience, cities such as Kyoto or Yokohama provide a serene atmosphere.
Vienna, Austria
Alex Schnee, a travel writer at The Wayfaring Voyager, describes Vienna as “undeniably peaceful,” highlighting that visitors are unlikely to face unwanted interruptions from vendors and strangers. “Austrians are friendly but respect personal space, allowing each person to explore at their own pace,” says Schnee. With graceful architecture and a calm atmosphere, Vienna offers the perfect setting to relax with a drink or a pastry without the noise and chaos often found in busy areas.
Seoul
While many Asian cities are known for their hustle and bustle, Seoul emerges as a refreshing exception. Schnee finds that “Seoul offers a blend of modernity and nature.” Within a short bus ride, you can escape to lush national parks. Consider a weekend retreat at a temple stay or immersing yourself in the colorful foliage during the seasons. Clean and orderly public transportation simplifies navigation, allowing for serene exploration even in the city.
Oslo, Norway
Oslo boasts a wealth of history, parks, and museums, all within tranquil and serene environments. “This incredibly safe city offers numerous activities for introverts,” Schnee remarks. Residents speak thoughtful English, yet you won’t be pestered by random strangers. Architecture enthusiasts will appreciate the harmonious blend of modern and historic buildings, creating a perfect backdrop for peaceful exploration.
The Lake District, England
Readers familiar with “Pride and Prejudice” will recognize the Lake District as Elizabeth Bennett’s original travel destination before her memorable detour. While that change proved fortunate, it left untouched a serene locale ideal for solitude. Travel writer Lauren Pears describes the Lake District as a haven for solitude-seekers, providing numerous hills and trails perfect for leisurely hiking, along with remote lodges and delectable English pubs where guests can unwind and savor their surroundings. Whether lounging on the pebble shorelines, wandering lagoons, or enjoying serene performances at the Derwent Water theatre, options abound for peaceful pursuits.
Toronto, Canada
Toronto is a vibrant Canadian city known as a mosaic of neighborhoods, allowing visitors to explore less overwhelming areas while immersing themselves in a diverse array of cultures and cuisines. With over 50% of its residents born outside Canada and approximately 230 nationalities represented, Toronto offers a unique cultural blend ripe for discovery.
Fondalez, Andalusia
Fondalez, a quaint rural town with a population of around 20 people and a couple of cats, provides an exemplary setting for an introverted lifestyle. As travel writer Namita Kulkarni describes it, “On the southern slopes of the Sierra Nevada, overlooking the Mediterranean, Fondalez is part of Las Alpujarras, a collection of tranquil mountain villages. It’s the kind of place that makes you ponder a complete change in lifestyle for the sake of peace and quiet. In this harmonious beauty, you’ll find pristine air, winding mountain trails, lazy cats basking in the sun, and crystal-clear spring water.” This lifestyle invites residents to savor each day without a hurried pace.
Iceland
Lifelong introvert and travel blogger Kris Morton from Nomad by Trade, regards Iceland as an ideal travel destination for introverts. “If you can avoid the bus tours from Reykjavik and rent your own vehicle, embarking on a road trip along the Ring Road uncovers some of the most stunning scenery while providing the space to recharge away from crowds,” he advises. Iceland boasts an impressively low crime rate, making it an excellent choice for first-time solo travelers wary of venturing out on their own.
