Romantic Escapes in Japan with GoTravelDaily

Manga comics, blazing neon, speeding trains, supersized pedestrian crossings – Japan might not immediately inspire a vision of traditional romance, but don’t be fooled. With subtropical beaches, soothing hot springs, and an array of world-class food, it’s easy for lovers to be seduced by this extraordinary country.

Fast Fun in Tokyo – and Its Antidote in Fuji

For couples, there’s something undeniable about Tokyo: it simply insists you have fun. Sing your hearts out in a karaoke booth for two, watch the sunset over the city from the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building observatory, cruise Tokyo Bay aboard Jicoo the Floating Bar, or get cozy in the alleyways and tiny drinking dens of Shinjuku’s Golden Gai. If sanctity calls, head to the Dai-jingū shrine, where couples seek good luck in love.

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You won’t go hungry in Tokyo: it has more restaurants per capita than any other city on the planet. For sheer indulgence, head to Tokyo Aman’s 33rd-floor restaurant (aman.com) for exquisite fusion food: think melt-in-the-mouth wagyū (Japanese beef) accompanied by buttery Brussels sprouts, with a side order of jaw-dropping views. For a more simple old-world atmosphere, try Hantei, serving kushiage (skewers of fried meat, fish, and vegetables) in a historic wooden building designated as an important cultural property.

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The Fuji Five Lakes region is just an hour’s train ride from the capital and unlocks incredible views of Japan’s most iconic mountain. While Mt Fuji can be climbed in summer, it’s arguably best appreciated from afar. Stay at Hoshinoya Fuji, where floor-to-ceiling windows in snug cabins encourage mountain-gazing in complete seclusion. With woodland tours, horse-riding, and mushroom-picking, this place offers bucolic romance, but if all that sounds too energetic, simply toast some marshmallows and lounge in a hammock strung between scented pines. If you can’t drag yourselves away from the action of Tokyo, boutique Hotel S offers stylish rooms right near the nightlife of Roppongi, including a ‘Zen’ room with a circular wooden bath.

A Taste of Tradition in Kyoto and Osaka

It doesn’t take much for romance to blossom in Kyoto. This ancient city of silent temples and winding lanes feels ready-made for hand-in-hand exploring. Find your happy place amid the gentle sway of Arashiyama’s Bamboo Grove (arrive early to avoid the crowds), or be enchanted by the Fushimi Inari-Taisha torii gates, where a detour from the main trail means having the quiet woodland all to yourselves. In the evening, take a stroll along the cobbled, lantern-lit streets of traditional geisha district Gion, or contemplate your love while walking the canalside Path of Philosophy.

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Kyoto is known for its ryokan (traditional inns), unmissable for visitors keen to enjoy the country’s legendary hospitality. Kyoto boasts some of the most refined ryokan in the country, such as the intimate and welcoming Tawaraya, a 300-year-old inn unrivaled for its attentive staff and profound sense of calm. Here, each small room looks out onto its own private garden, guests bathe in cedar-wood hot tubs, and staff quietly polish and scent your shoes while you shuffle about the ryokan in pillow-soft slippers. For a longer stay and completely private getaway, you could rent a floor in your own machiya (wooden townhouse). Old Kyoto offers three houses to choose from, all close to Gion.

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In Kyoto, kaiseki (Japanese haute cuisine) reigns supreme. This fine-dining experience involves being served a parade of small dishes carefully chosen based on the season, usually including vegetables, tempura, pickles, fish, and soup. Kikunoi is one of the best places to try it. For a more budget-friendly option, go to Tagoto Honten; the lunch menu offers a great introduction to this intimate style of cuisine. Those who prefer casual dining can head to the nearby city of Osaka, just 30 minutes by fast train from Kyoto. More casual doesn’t mean lacking in atmosphere: stroll on the Tombori River Walk alongside Dōtombori canal while grazing on street-stall takoyaki (grilled octopus dumplings); or try to nab a seat overlooking the canal at okonomiyaki (savoury pancake) restaurant Chibō, where the house special Dōtombori yaki (with pork, beef, squid, shrimp, and cheese) is an institution.

Rural Tranquility in Wakayama Prefecture

Get off the beaten track with one of Japan’s most enticing ancient pilgrimage routes, the Kumano Kodō, about three hours by train south of Osaka, in Wakayama Prefecture. This region is lovely year-round and enjoys more temperate climes than other parts of central Honshū. Through pine forests, tiny villages, waterfalls, and hidden shrines, the walk is a verdant delight from start to end, with routes available that range from a day to a week. Kumano Travel (tb-kumano.jp/en/kumano-travel), a government-led and community-based initiative, can assist in arranging itineraries. Alternately, head to the mountaintop monastic center of Kōya-san. It might not sound like a lovers’ paradise, but its extraordinary temple lodgings, eerie forested cemetery, and grand pagodas will furnish you with a whole new perspective on devotion. Arriving via the vertiginous cable car is half the fun.

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At Kawayu Onsen Fujiya, couples too shy to bare all in traditional communal onsen (where nudity is obligatory) can opt for a room with a private bath perched on its balcony. Or go public and take the plunge in the river directly in front of the ryokan, where hot-spring water bubbles up enticingly.

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Overnight visitors to Kōya-san will sample shōjin ryōri, a Buddhist vegetarian style of cooking that focuses on balance and simplicity. Dishes might include silken tofu with sesame paste and wasabi, or crispy aubergine topped with caramelized miso. Monks deliver supper to your personal chamber and retreat from sight, leaving you alone to marvel from your tatami mats at their edible masterpieces.

Beach Bumming on Okinawa and the Southwest Islands

Surprisingly under-the-radar, Okinawa’s sandy stretches and coral-fringed waters are the backdrop to a culture emphatically more laid-back and slower-paced than that of ‘mainland’ Japan. A short flight from main city Naha on Okinawa-hontō, the Keramas are tiny white-sand islands in crystal waters, while the more remote Yaeyamas offer wilder experiences, with lush mangrove swamps and jungles to explore. UNESCO-listed Yakushima, further north, is famed for its mountainous interior covered with mossy ancient cedar trees.

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Tsundara Beach Retreat on Ishigaki-jima in the Yaeyamas is a dream for those wanting to get away from it all. Nestled between ocean and forest, its tropical ambience, sun-drenched terrace, and private beach will have you falling in love all over again. Activities range from diving and snorkeling to ziplining through the jungle canopy. And it’s exclusive: you’ll have the whole place to yourselves. On Yakushima, watch the waves from your private veranda and soak in the outdoor bath at family-run ryokan Sōyōtei. Choose complete pampering at Sankara Hotel & Spa.

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Get a taste of island-style Japanese cuisine on Ishigaki-jima by wandering through Ishigakijima Village, a collection of small restaurants, including some serving local specialities such as Ishigaki beef and Okinawa soba (thick white udon noodles in a pork broth). Follow it up with a sip of awamori (Okinawan liquor distilled from rice) or beer at cozy local favorite Cafe Taniwha. In Naha, select a multicourse evening meal at hilltop Nuchigafu.

A Little More Action in Hokkaidō

Less about admiring temples and gazing at each other across a raked Zen garden, Hokkaidō is for couples who like to play together. Japan’s northernmost island is home to miles of wilderness, mountains, and volcanic landscapes dotted with bubbling onsen, but most come here for a different reason: powder. In winter, skiers and snowboarders head for Niseko and Furano, and in February crowds gather at the Sapporo Snow Festival’s wonderland of snow sculptures. In the summer months, it’s all about hiking in national parks, including Shiretoko, Akan, and Japan’s largest, Daisetsuzan.

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Enjoy the warm timbered decor and onsen at Lodge Nutapukaushipe in Daisetsuzan, or the lake views and artwork at Marukibune in the Ainu village in Akan. For the novelty factor: in January and February, snuggle together at the Ice Hotel at Hoshino Resorts Tomamu (snowtomamu.jp), in central Hokkaidō. There’s even an Ice Chapel next door if you plan to tie the knot on your trip.

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The homely lamp-lit, arts-and-crafts-bedecked Poronno in Akan is a top place to try some Ainu specialities, including potato dumplings and preserved venison. In ski-resort Niseko, head to popular Niseko Loft Club to bond over a shared platter of grill-your-own meat.

Jessica Cole traveled to Japan with support from Aman Tokyo (aman.com) and Kumano Travel (kumano-travel.com). GoTravelDaily contributors do not accept freebies in exchange for positive coverage.