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Overcoming My Fear of Water Sports: My Transformative First Trip to Hawaii

Why You Should Try Surfing in Hawaii

Despite learning to swim as a child and always living near water, I have never been the biggest fan of being in it. Sure, I might enjoy a quick swim occasionally, but anything more than that makes me want to take a nap and feels like a quick ticket to the deep end. Moreover, when it comes to water sports, I’ve historically steered clear. With the exception of a few (terrifying) jet-ski outings, I’ve long avoided activities on the water, fearing a blend of my distaste for the ocean with my lack of athletic prowess would lead to disaster.

A Unique Offer

A few months ago, I received an intriguing offer from the Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort & Spa in Honolulu. They invited me to visit their property for an exclusive surfing lesson with the famous Beach Boys, a group of local surfers known for sharing the joy of the ocean with visitors for generations. Although I was thrilled about visiting Hawaii for the first time, the thought of surfing, especially given my clumsy tendencies, left me filled with uncertainty. However, I couldn’t resist the allure of Hawaii, so I accepted the invitation.

Fortunately, I had some time to prepare before my surfing lesson. The resort, recently renovated, featured enhanced amenities such as two sparkling pools, a new amenity deck, and a fantastic restaurant. My fiancé, Kurt, joined me for moral support (and some relaxation in Hawaii). We spent the days leading up to the lesson indulging in delicious food, sipping cocktails by the adults-only pool, and enjoying breathtaking Waikiki sunsets from our oceanview suite. It was all incredibly relaxing—until the time came for me to surf.

Conquering My Fears

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During our beach walks, I observed many surfers conquering the waves and, while it appeared enjoyable, I couldn’t fathom joining them. There was no way I, with my lack of coordination and aversion to sports, could stand on a board, let alone remain upright long enough to consider it actual surfing. When Alika, the instructor from the Pacific Island Beach Boys, arrived with two hefty boards, skepticism bubbled within me.

“I just hope I manage to get up once,” I remarked to Kurt as we paddled out. Kurt, familiar with my tendency to trip over thin air, shot me a look that clearly conveyed, “That’s optimistic.” Nevertheless, I was eager to avoid complete embarrassment, so, upon reaching the designated surf area, I diligently followed Alika’s guidance and positioned myself correctly on the board. With a gulp, I felt the push of a wave beneath me and, despite my shaky legs, I rose to a stand—actually surfing, if only for a fleeting moment!

The Thrill of Surfing

This incredible experience was liberating. As I balanced on the board, my previous anxieties about being in the water dissipated. All I could focus on was the sheer joy of surfing and the beautiful scenery all around. Did I look cool and collected? Absolutely not—my legs wobbled, and it wasn’t long before I tumbled back into the water, chuckling at my antics. However, in those brief moments, I felt powerful, capable, and proud of my accomplishment.

Following that initial run, I found myself returning to the waves over and over. Each attempt brought improvement as my legs grew stronger, and I managed to stay on the board longer. I even struck a few poses for Kurt’s GoPro. By the end of the lesson, I felt exhausted, drenched, and more invigorated than I had in a long time, relishing the incredible experience I once thought I would shy away from.

Looking Forward to Future Adventures

Although our stay in Honolulu was brief, it left me feeling not only confident but also excited about embracing more water activities back home in North Carolina or during our next beach getaway. From kayaking to waterskiing and wakeboarding—I’m eager to try it all (with the exception of cage diving, which still gives me chills just thinking about it). Will I become proficient in these sports? Likely not. Nevertheless, if stepping out of my comfort zone allows me to have an amazing time, who cares about the rest?

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