Summary:
Cultural Dos and Don’ts When Visiting Bali
As “Western” and modern as much of Bali presents itself, the native culture of Bali provides a firm and tangible bedrock on which Balinese behavior and relationships are built.
Therefore, if you’re planning a visit to Bali with a focus on exploring the island’s temples and interacting with the locals, it is crucial to be mindful of local etiquette. Following these guidelines will help you maintain harmonious relationships in Bali, regardless of where you go around the island.
Dress and Act Modestly
Balinese locals are generally more conservative than most Westerners; they frown upon public displays of affection. Therefore, when you are in or near Balinese temples or rural communities, it is advisable to minimize any physical affection.
Moreover, modest dressing is expected, particularly when visiting temples. Both men and women should wear shirts that cover their shoulders and upper arms. Flip-flops are acceptable, as long as the overall appearance remains modest.
Additionally, the following leg coverings are mandatory for both men and women preparing to enter a Balinese temple:
- Sarong (also known locally as kain kamben) around your legs
- Temple scarf (known as a selendang) around your waist
These items are typically available for rent at most temple entrances, but you are free to bring your own.
Avoid Using Your Left Hand
This practice is rooted in hygiene; the left hand is commonly used for personal sanitation. In Balinese culture, traditional practices do not favor the use of toilet paper, and the left hand is considered impure. Consequently, it should not be used to touch others or to hand over items. An exception is made when both hands are used to present something to someone, as this shows respect.
Do Not Use Your Index Finger
If you need to call someone’s attention, extend your hand with the palm facing down and make a downward waving motion. When pointing at something, it is best to loosely grip your fingers and use your thumb instead of your index finger.
Maintain Composure
It’s crucial to remember that the Balinese consider raising one’s voice to be vulgar, with confrontational behavior deemed offensive. Losing one’s temper is seen as shameful. Consequently, locals tend to avoid expressing anger or loud emotions, which may be perceived as offensive compared to Western norms.
Avoid Touching Heads
In Balinese belief, the soul resides in the head, making it a sacred area that should not be touched. Even Balinese children should not be touched on the head, so it is best to refrain from such interactions.
Menstruation Etiquette
Women who are menstruating should be aware that entering a temple is forbidden, as it is culturally considered impure. This applies not only to women but also to anyone with a bleeding wound or running sore.
Respect Offerings
Canang sari, the small offerings made by locals in the morning, must be respected. These woven palm leaf packages are often found on sidewalks and stairs. Stepping on one can be profoundly offensive to any Balinese local who sees it, so it’s essential to be mindful of where you walk, especially early in the day.
Don’t Interrupt Religious Processions
Religious processions are common in Bali, especially during significant holy days like Galungan and Nyepi. These events take precedence, so if you find yourself behind a procession on a narrow road, refrain from honking your horn or making any disruptive noises.
Inside a Balinese temple, maintain a respectful demeanor during religious events. For instance, your head should never be higher than that of the priest, flash photography is prohibited, and you should never walk in front of individuals who are praying.
