Summary
If you’re traveling to Russia, it’s essential to understand how the country’s customs may differ from those in Western nations. How do Russians interact casually? Is tipping customary in Russian restaurants? Understanding these aspects will enhance your experience as you show respect for local customs.
1. Smiling
In general, Russians do not smile at strangers in public spaces, including the streets, Metro, or stores. This behavior reflects a cultural belief that smiling is reserved for friends. Consequently, a smile directed at a stranger may be perceived as insincere and is often considered an “Americanism.” While this might come as a surprise, it’s advisable not to walk around grinning at everyone.
2. Metro Etiquette
Having established that smiling isn’t the norm, there are additional behaviors to adopt on the Metro. Russians typically avoid eye contact with others during their commute, so it’s best to follow this practice. Activities like reading or listening to music are entirely appropriate. Moreover, do not give money to beggars, as they are quite common. Keep a close watch on your belongings, as pickpockets are prevalent, particularly in major European cities.
When it comes to seating, adhere to the accepted hierarchy: men should offer their seats to older women, pregnant women, and women in general, while children are expected to stand.
3. Line-Ups
Russians often do not demonstrate much respect for queues, especially in public transit or at market stalls. Be prepared for older individuals to cut in front of you. In Russian culture, respect for the elderly remains significant, so if an older woman with a wheeled cart does push ahead, it’s customary to remain calm. No one will support your complaint, as this behavior is typical.
4. Asking Questions
If you have any knowledge of the Russian language, attempt to use it when approaching someone with a question. Memorizing simple phrases, like “Do you speak English?” can be very beneficial. However, many store clerks, unless working at a tourist information desk, may not communicate in English. In those cases, seek out young adults aged 20 to 35, as they are more likely to speak English.
5. Treatment Toward Women
Chivalry is deeply ingrained in Russian culture. Women in Russia can expect men to offer their seats on the Metro, open doors, assist them off buses, and carry items that aren’t their handbags. If accompanying Russian men, they will likely cover costs, even without romantic involvement. Conversely, men visiting Russia should understand that this chivalrous behavior is the norm, regardless of their usual habits back home.
6. Tipping
Tipping is gradually gaining acceptance in Russia, although the practice differs significantly from many Western experiences. In most cases, a 10 percent tip is appropriate unless dining at an exceptionally high-end restaurant. Higher tips are appreciated but not expected. Notably, tipping during business lunches is generally unnecessary.
